Cheating can be anything from kissing someone else while in a relationship to cheating while married.
I don't agree with cheating at all, and i'd kill my boyfriend if he ever cheated on me (not literally of course) but he definately wouldn't be my boyfriend anymore, he'd be dumped!
Saying that though, i will admit to kissing other people while being in a relationship in the past, but i'd never do it again. I was younger, and i've definately grown up and realised its just not very nice!
The one thing out of the lecture i agree with though, is that if people are happy in a relationship would they cheat? The answer to me is obviously no, so there must be issues to start with. Although this in no way excuses it. problems should be discussed cheating is not the answer.
The fact is though that on most occassions nothing good can come out of cheating, adultery can jeparadize your family's safety, if your lover refuses to keep quiet, and leave you alone once you have finished with them. It was also pointed out all the bad involved in cheating
- lying
- scheming or calculating
- knowing others vulnerabilities and using them to ones advantage
- Hypocrisy
- Keeping up apperances
- Selfishness
- Taking risks
I found this link good http://www.womensinfidelity.com/ because it explained that women cheat as much as men.
Hello Tara!
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed reading your views on infidelity and found it very interesting. I agreed with a lot of your views, especially about the fact that if a person is happy in a relationship, the thought of infidelity would not cross his/her mind. I find it very comforting to hear that good strong morals are still very much in existence.